Am I a proud Dominatrix?

Words of salvation, self worth, spoken word

Yes and no.

In the realms of sexuality, pleasure and epic orgasms I feel like I sit in a quiet little pocket. It’s one I call hedonism, though a lot of people misinterpret the purity in which it means to me.

Hedonism was a quiet whisper in my darkest moment, a reminder that it was time to sit in the shame of my sex.

Contrary to what we think and FB algorithms sex is not a dirty word, just like hedonism is not the over indulgent gluttony that people attach to it. (It can be, everything has a shadow.)

My corner of sexuality that I teach in the Rise of The Intuitive Dominatrix is about self. Beginning to open ourselves up to receive, to begin a dialogue with our yoni, to have an honest conversation about how we show up or don’t show up in the bedroom, because guaranteed it’s being reflected in other areas of our lives. (whether you have a partner or not)

It’s about learning how to tap in the purest pleasure and divine love from within to create. We open up a portal in which becomes our meeting point for all creation. We play with the idea of polarity and let them dissolve into a transcended consciousness of oneness.

Nothing is forbidden and nothing is needed.

We welcome all that is alive within us.

We honour that always.

We mind our own pleasure and our pleasure is NEVER a performance, it’s for us first and from there we can invite people in… if we choose.

While the Intuitive Dominatrix screams a strong confidence, there is benevolence, innocence and pure love at the core.

I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I sometimes question this part of what I teach… most sex wizards and witches are in open or polygamous relationships, don’t have kids and much more fluid than I… than there’s me, in my 21 year monogamous relationship and we live a pretty “normal” life.

My little pocket of pleasure is at the heart of everything I do, teach and how I show up in the world. It is the fuel in which feeds my soul and my creation, it’s a life force that breathes through me and into every area of my life.

When we open up this portal and exploration every thing changes, the lens in which we look through life, changes.

There is no shame in this space.

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