It’s a classic story that we have all lived through at some stage.
- You meet a guy who turns out to be a douche and you break up, pretty soon you’re with another douche?
- You have a job you really don’t like, so you find another one and in no time at all you end up hating that one?
- You have a love/ hate relationship with money, you get it and you spend it, without knowing the next cash injection will take place?
This is a scenario that many people find themselves in and it’s easy to do so.
Imagine you are a light and everyone on this planet is also a light and we live on a massive light grid. Do you see it?
We all shine at a different level of brightness; we attract the same intensity of light frequency. Whoa baby, that’s a bit nuts!
If like attracts like, hate attracts hate, money follows money etc…
It’s all about an energy exchange.
You see, you have to do the work in between to ensure you don’t attract the same thing into your life, you need to raise your light frequency.
I have seen these cycles throughout my life, attracting abuser after abuser, job after job and money comes and goes. It was this cycle that just continued to play. I didn’t even understand what was happening at the time, I just knew I had to do something to break the cycle.
You don’t need to see the entire staircase in order to take the first step.
This was so completely true in my case!
It started with my relationships, I was attracting toxic relationships into my life.
How to break the cycle.
- Make the decision to do anything to break the cycle: I was so committed to breaking the cycle, that I was no longer focused on what I didn’t want and became crystal clear on what I did want. By switching your focus on what you do want and defining that you begin to feel like worthy. The love that you have for yourself is restored, reinvigorated and on a whole new level of self acceptance.
- I surrounded myself with people who had healthy relationships, I began to see and understand what love was really about, what a healthy relationship looked like and that is was possible to experience real, healthy, true love, but once I felt it for myself.
- I 100% let go of wanting to find love: For the first time in my life I was asking myself some important questions, like: What do I want to do with my life? Are you happy? Do whatever you like as long as it’s FUN. I didn’t need a partner, because my life was already fulfilled. I was doing what I loved to do, making money, travelling the world, I had amazing friends and although I didn’t have the big vision about what I wanted in my life, I couldn’t see the entire staircase. I was taking one step at a time in a direction that felt amazing.
- When I least expected it the universe brought me the most amazing man I could ever imagine. Smokin’ hot, funny, emotionally and financially secure and he accepted me for me. 16 ½ years he has been in my life, it’s not always perfect, it’s not always easy and it’s perfect pure and divine. I know that a healthy real true loving relationship takes work and it’s the hardest thing I have ever had to do, but also the easiest thing I have ever had to do. I am free as a bird and he supports me no matter what crazy arse thing I am doing, I support him in whatever he wants to do. Love is about supporting each other in our ability to fly, not clipping our wings and wishing them to be something else.
- Your career/ passion/ job/ business is exactly the same: Be the change you want to see, raise your light and focus on what you want and set strong intentions. It’s the exact same process. What you put out there, what you are will be exactly what you attract. Be the path, own the path and just get going! Don’t lose hope or focus because you are gaining traction at every step as long as you know what you want, you take action towards it and you let go and allow it to happen… It’s already happening.
- Money. Love it, appreciate it, give thanks, nourish it, spend it with love and know that if you re constantly raising your light you will continue to attract grow and expand your wealth beyond what you can ever imagine.
