Bondage Play

Liberator Esse Chaise black label

Bondage is probably the most generic and socially acceptable BDSM term we have, so any form of bondage play can be vast and wide.  If you want to hone in on your flavour start with discovering your kink profile and love language if you want to create and own your sacred experience.  The B in…

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Toys For Visual Play.


  Eyes Wide Open is at the heart of those who enjoy visual kink and BDSM play, as society we like to watch. I’ve not seen a kink profile that doesn’t have voyeurism in the top 10. Visual play is not just about watching though it’s about visual stimulation and arousal, so you don’t want…

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Sensory Play.

kink, bdsm, the hedonistic way,

It’s one of the most common and loved form of kink and BSDM play. When we move beyond “vanilla” intimacy sensory play is a great way to begin your journey with kink and it doesn’t feel too “out there” or extreme. It doesn’t matter which Kink Profile you are, sensory play will have something for…

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🍆😸🔥 We’re Being SOLD a Billion $ Lie🔥😸🍆

Renee Mayne, Intuitive Dominatrix, Somatic Kink

Spirituality and S€xuality has been stolen from us and now being sold to us in disjointed, fragmented and diluted half truths. We talk about Sacred Leadership and smashing the patriarch when we’re oblivious to the fact it’s alive within us. The problem is that it’s wrapped up in pretty words, love and light and a…

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The Fantasy & The Reality


There’s the fantasy and then there’s the reality. The points in between are the steps we take to integrate both. Point A and point B formulates a quest. Everything in life connected, We’re a web of consciousness and connectivity, That’s why when we hurt others we hurt ourselves, When we love hard and holy everyone…

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Disrupting the Hierarchal Business Model

Disrupting the Hierarchal Business Model

This week I promised myself I wouldn’t be unafraid to have hard conversations and at the time I didn’t know what that actually meant, now I do. Thalia Kleckin and I had Clubhouse on “Disrupting the Hierarchal Business Model.” I am not an expert in this field, but I have been in business a long…

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My Trauma & Me.

healing trauma and abuse

When I think about my past and how I navigated some really tough situations, experiences and a shit load of trauma. Though I never realised it at the time and now I am thankful in the NOT knowing, because sometimes the more we know the more our fight, flight and freeze kicks into action. The…

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The Shadow Side Personal Development, Self- Help and Spirituality

Renee Mayne, shadow archetypes, somatic kink.

Here’s the thing about Personal Development, Self- Help and Spirituality. You become really good at deluding yourself. We rank certain outcomes and feelings over others, We project and reflect our way into a rabbit warren of never ending healing. We “observe” the behaviour of other people, wrap it in beautiful language that is still shaming…

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What is Somatic Kink?

Somatic Kink Experience, Intuitive Dominatrix Intuitive Intelligence Trainer, Renee Mayne

It is the hidden kinks in our subtle anatomy, our body and sub-conscious that are playing out in our reality in ways that aren’t aligned with what we really want. Everyone has them and they are birthplace of everything we identify with and attach ourselves too and we secretly get off on them, there is…

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When We Deny Self We Automatically Deny Other.

Renee Mayne, somatic kink

Last week in the Temple of the Internship we were talking about when we deny self we automatically deny “other”. A big fat motivator for people is NOT to do it for themselves, but someone else. Myself included. I have been really into co-dependency, independency and interdependency over the last couple of years and looking…

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